Month: March 2019

How To Kill A Marriage Pt. 2

.Reading time 12 minutes.

Continuation of “How To Kill A Marriage Pt. 1”… Expect your partner to meet all your needs. If you read my blog post titled  “Father of the Bride Pt. 1 & 2” you’ll witness that our marriage began with a big open wound for me. Hart had some wounds, too, but they weren’t as immediate or obvious.  I […]

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How To Kill A Marriage Pt. 1

.Reading time 10 minutes.

There are endless ways to ruin a marriage, but I’m going to share those that I know from experience. Writing these down stirred up a lot of emotions for me on how stuck we were, the pain we experienced, and the embarrassing low points we dug ourselves to. These are not proud moments, but I […]

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The Wrecking Of Our Control

.Reading time 18 minutes.

When we reach a place that we consider success, it can easily get paired with the belief of “I’ve got this,” no longer needing help from anyone or anything. I’ve built this life, I worked hard for it, and it’s mine. I am no longer needy – the epitome of success. We feel we are […]

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For Richer or Poorer

.Reading time 16 minutes.

July 22, 2010 Hart compassionately kisses the rolling tears off my cheek as I lie faceup on the bed in our newest home, a one-bedroom 40s apartment in Los Feliz.  My mind struggles to figure out answers to the questions beating in my head.  We have only been here for three days and were just shy […]

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